There are two groups of swingers.
One is what we call "hardcore" swingers. What they want is sex, sex and sex. They will do anything just to go to bed. To them sex is just about penetrating. They enjoy sex for the sake of having sex. One couple, another couple, and then another... It is a never ending urge to find new partners.
There is another group. We call it "softcore" swingers. They like sex too, but sex is the whole process of getting to know each other, flirting, seducing, and the urge for intimacy. It is not just penetration. It is about "chemistry" among the parties involved, the couples are attracted to each other not just sexually, but also as a person, as a friend. It is an intimate, exciting, trusting relationship that they enjoy.
A survey in the 1950s indicated that three quarters of men ejaculate withintwo minutes of penetration. Other evidence supports an average time of six and a half minutes in 18-30 year olds. It is also reported in one study that only 14% of women always have orgasm during intercourse.
Putting the two together, how much fun will there be after ejaculation if sex ia all about penetration?
Therefore, swinging is about finding right partners, good matches. It is hard to imagine how people from the two different groups could enjoy the company of each other. If you want to talk, leave your address here. If you are NOT between 45-55, you do not need to apply;-)
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